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Trust Me, I’ll Catch You

You know when you see someone struggling with something and you are just itching to help them, but you don’t dare because you don’t have that kind of relationship with them? Sure, sometimes you extend a kind gesture for a stranger.  I’m thinking bigger.  What I’m talking about is your ability to really step in and guide someone, to change …

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I’ll Bet You’re Gambling With What Matters Most

Have you ever felt like you were doing something that wouldn’t really make a difference, like you were spinning your wheels just to get through the task?  Maybe you feel like that at work. Maybe it’s that committee you joined and realized is strangling you.  Maybe it’s your relationship.  You know that something is off, but hey, you just keep …

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You “sell” what??

My clients’ journeys are never straight forward.  Like so many of us, you think you want one thing and really need something you hadn’t even considered.   The theme of the comments (and wonderful compliments) that have come my way centers on how authentically I’ve helped people to become.  And in today’s Wednesdays With Wayne, the question arises – how …

How Do I Know?

How Do I Know? Depending on where you put the emphasis, that could be read as HOW do I know? Or perhaps, How DO I Know? Or maybe, How do I Know? Or is it, How do I KNOW? For the sake of this Wednesdays With Wayne, we’ll go with the latter: How do I KNOW? People ask me all …

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This guy just challenged me big time!

When I travel, I like to meet with my clients before I begin training their teams.  It’s important that we’re on the same page, that I understand the needs of the business owner, and that they know my working style. We had a great dinner together.  It was casual and we began to get to know each other on a …

How To Easily Clear Negative Thoughts In One Step!

Arrrrggggghhhhh!!!  Those thoughts.  Even DynamicLeaders and High Performers have those thoughts that creep in.  They give you the “gift” of self-doubt.  They tell you to think again and they remind you that you’re not good enough. In this week’s Wednesdays With Wayne, I call B.S. on that!  And you can too! There’s a quick “pattern interrupt” you can use for …

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Your thermostat is killing you!

The concept of “set point” came up in a recent coaching conversation.  While typically associated with a certain weight that a body seems to settle at, I believe that the notion of set-point extends to other factors in our lives including fitness, finances, and friendship.  I also believe that we can shift any given set point and not settle for …

Divine Answers

During my most recent MasterMind* group, a thought came up for me.  I wondered about abundance.  And I did some internal reflection on what was “enough.”  They’re not mutually exclusive, in fact, in a Venn diagram, they’re probably overlapping.   *A MasterMind is a group of people who come from a variety of different backgrounds and businesses to work on …

You MUST Ask…

Just as you watch a child move through stages of growth or watch people progress through a class, you can tell just how they’re growing based on the questions they pose.  You can actually see what kind of perspective a person has in his/her world by the questions they ask.   In this week’s Wednesdays With Wayne, you get to …

THE Quick Trick for Holding It All Together

You’re probably on the go… again!  It’s been a week already and we’re not even done.  Like most high performers, you’re feeling the pressure to get it all done.   In this week’s Wednesdays With Wayne I’ll show you THE best way to hold it all together.  It actually hit me in the shower and I knew I had to …