A Light In The Darkness

Carrying a candle into the darkness does not change the flame.  Darkness is not the presence of dark, but the absence of light.  This week’s Wednesdays With Wayne post is about what I call The Torch of Clarity.   When you become super clear about your values and the role(s) you play in the world, doubt abates.  When you become …

Waiting for Sunrise

Is it a sleepless night?  Or are you up early on purpose?  It’s still dark out and you find yourself wondering about and perhaps worrying about all of the things you’ve got going on.  The conversations you need to have, the conversations you hope you don’t have to have, and the conversations that you get to have all seem to …

You Said YES!

That’s how you got to where you are – you said yes in a strange, circuitous, series.  Looking out over the bluffs at Cabo San Lucas, I got into a discussion with a gentleman who had flown in from Australia.  Kirby pointed out that in order for a gathering of so many great minds at a location like this, you …

From Whining To Winning

You’re still in the first month of the year. So how did everything you’re working on get so harrrrrrdddddd??? There really is so much to do that trying to do it all is overwhelming.  It’s so hard that it makes you feel like you want to pack it all in, shut it all down, go back to bed, and hide …

Feeling Behind?

Just try to paint the Golden Gate Bridge!             It’s only a couple of weeks into January!  How can I feel so far behind already?  I’ve heard this from clients and people close to me.  It’s easy to understand how you might be feeling that way.   You’re a high performing DynamicLeader®.  That means, you’re …

Why you haven’t started is BS!

We’re in the second week of the New Year and you’re struggling with those goals.  The story you tell yourself is that you missed the starting gun so you shouldn’t run the race.  The story you tell yourself is that if you can’t do it perfectly, you shouldn’t do it.  The story you tell yourself is . . . what …

THE ONE WORD Not To Associate With New Year’s Resolutions

You made it!  Happy New Year! This one is quick – There is one word that will set you up for failure when you’re looking at your New Year’s Resolutions.  Now, I know some people are refusing to make “resolutions.”  I used to play that game too.  I don’t have resolutions, I just have things I want to accomplish this …

The Most Critical Investment Right NOW

Most people miss this. It’s not a fund.  It’s not crypto-anything. This week’s Wednesdays With Wayne is about something much more critical than financial investing. The most critical investment as you turn the calendar and find 2018 staring at you is YOU.  Most people miss the fact that they need to invest in themselves.  How can you step into a …

Love Them Fuller

  The title of this week’s Wednesdays With Wayne says it all, really: Love Them Fuller  – it’s grammatically incorrect and so full of everything else “right” that I just had to capture it when a client said it to me this week.  That was her goal for herself; it’s something she wants to bring to her family and her …

The Good And The Bad

My travels take me to all kinds of places.  As I write this week’s Wednesdays With Wayne, I’m at yet another airport, the overhead announcements blare, and I’ve just completed (at least a portion of) a conversation with the woman sitting next to me.  We spoke about travel.  We spoke about the holidays.  And the theme of all that we …